Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. I'm happily married to my wife, we've been together for 21years. She's the mother of our 3 adult kids, she's my best friend, she's my rock and she really is the love of my life. I still find my wife very attractive and I love her deeply. We don't have sex very often, barely once every couple of months, I'm just not interested, I think because I have "performance issues" sometimes.
Not everyone is gifted with gaydars, that incredible ability to sense if someone is a homosexual just by one glance. But imagine this: what if you fall in love with a woman—and even marry her—without knowing that she is, in fact, a lesbian? Mind you, many a man has tied the knot with a lesbian without knowing. It is heartbreaking for a man to find out that he has a lesbian wife. Especially if that man is you. So how do you know if have a lesbian wife?
This is the fifth and final story of a five-part series on how alternative relationships are reshaping love in Canada. What she found changed their marriage forever. Don had been unfaithful. Until that moment, Jill had assumed her husband and best friend of nearly 30 years was as straight as she was. Today, the Florida-based couple looks back on that discovery as a pivotal point in their union.
Yes, she's really bisexual. You wouldn't keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was "really" straight, right? Yeah, it's just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman.